Post it 2
When the hrt hits
honestly some of y’all want a significant other so badly and can’t understand why you can’t find one, but have no sense of boundaries or healthy expectations of what a relationship is like. in a committed long-term partnership you get left on read, you wait for texts back, and you can forget about each other when you’re busy. sometimes you fall asleep without saying goodnight and sometimes you’re too caught up to text each other before 6pm. that’s how it is. thinking that you can’t be deeply, beautifully in love and still wait more than “1.75 hours” for a text back is such an unhealthy and unreasonable expectation of what love is, and you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you can’t allow the other person to exist on their own apart from you. if you’re projecting your anxieties and insecurities onto a partner who doesn’t even exist yet, then you aren’t ready for one.
here’s a new ideological movement for you: internet iconoclasm
- stop putting random internet people on pedestals because they’re funny or quirky or for any reason at all actually
- self examine and self criticize: are you putting too much stock in parasocial internet relationships? are you being mindful of the humanity of others?
- never lay down your pride to defend someone you’ve never even talked to
- remember that the person and the persona can be very different
- if an online celebrity or influencer deserves to be torn down, then let them be torn down.
The 1 exception: Seth Everman
how about no exceptions because this is literally a basic guide for healthy and respectful behavior wrt internet fame
Seth Everman IS the internet and we must worship him accordingly
do you people hear yourselves sometimes
